Monday Motivation: 20 Things to Stop Wearing

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Good morning and Happy Monday! Happy Women’s History Month! This is a great time to focus on the great things about being a woman (even if the world is on fire). Being a woman in this world isn’t easy. There are plenty of places where being a woman is the hardest person to be – and yet, the world NEEDS women, for our understanding, compassion, empathy, and fire. The world will try to drag us all down, destroy our self-esteem, confidence, and understanding of the power we wield. It’s why legislatures are trying to dismantle women’s rights in so many places. Because we are powerful. Don’t feel that? It’s understandable with onslaught of messages trying to cut you down. So here’s the first step in recovering your power with Motivation for this Monday: Iris Apfel recently passed away – a fashion icon who didn’t let anyone tell her how to dress even though she was 102! The woman in the yellow coat looks like her. Don’t let anyone tell you how you should be as a woman. You get to choose your own style, your own way of getting things done. The only expectations you need to fulfill are your own. You’ve survived this long and you know how things work for you. Don’t let anyone tell you how you do things is wrong – are they living your life? Nope.  Of course it’s okay to seek and take advice – sometimes you can learn better ways of doing things – but you owe no one explanations for why and how you do things, and you don’t have to wear their expectations like an ill-fitting pair of shoes. YOU are the woman you’re meant to be. Be her to the fullest. Happy Women’s History Month and Happy Monday!

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Recipe for Romance: Vanilla Almond Milk

Recipe for Romance Two champagne glasses against a purple sparkly background with bells and ribbons at their base

Welcome to Recipe for Romance! Each weekend, I share a snippet of a tale that either takes place in the current month (in this case, February) or is coming out in the current month, and a recipe that either goes with the tale or goes with the month. Confused yet? Excellent! lol Let’s get started. I’m sharing a snippet of IN PLAIN SIGHT, a Summit Springs Sapphic Romance novel. Triss Singleton works at Caffeine Ivy’s Coffee shop and Briona (the sheriff) stopped there for a treat. Lots of folks like almond milk instead of regular dairy so there’s an almond milk recipe after. Available Now: In Plain Sight “So, what can I get for you, Sheriff?” Over Emily’s shoulder, Briona saw Triss smile at another customer, but it looked a little forced. Her gaze flitted away when she caught Briona looking, and she resumed her interaction with the customer ordering coffee. “Uh, hm, I dunno. I usually make my coffee at home, but I wanted a treat this morning.” Briona shrugged. “That’s because she doesn’t have the coffee snob gene. Come on and live a little, Sheriff.” Briona looked over her shoulder to find Deputy Julieta Huertas, Latina Lover and sniper, had moved up behind her. Briona snorted. “You’re right, Huertas. I leave the coffee snobbery to you. What would you recommend to treat myself?” “Hmm.” Huertas tapped her chin with a perfectly manicured finger. “I’d say you’re more of a mocha kind of woman than a latte lover. My suggestion? Go with the Mint Chocolate Mocha—it’s like a Girl Scout cookie with kick.” Briona laughed. “Are you trying to sweeten me up, Huertas?” Huertas grinned. “Maybe.” “Okay, okay, I’ll take a Mint Chocolate Mocha to go, please.” Briona pulled out her wallet from her back pocket and smiled at Emily. “Good—oh, sorry, I have to take this.” Emily’s expression morphed into concern as she pulled out her ringing cellphone. “Triss, can you finish for me? I gotta take this call.” I get to talk to Triss again. The pretty woman with the short burgundy hair nodded before she wiped her expression to reflect bland politeness. “Okay, it looks like you ordered a Mint Chocolate Mocha, is that right?” Briona nodded. “Yes, that’s right. It’s good to see you again. How long have you been working for Emily?” “I just started a couple weeks ago.” Triss didn’t smile back. “That’ll be four forty-five.” Homemade Vanilla Almond Milk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEFw2qRDyWY&t=11s This is an older video I did on Facebook during the Pandemic in early 2020, and I realized I hadn’t given specific amounts of almonds in the video. *eye roll*. I’ve gotten much better since then. Recipe below. INGREDIENTS: 1 cup of raw unsalted almonds, soaked 4-8 hours minimum3.5 cups water (filtered, purified, tap – up to you)Spices Optional: 1/4 tsp cardamom1/4 tsp cinnamon1/2 tsp vanilla1/8 tsp Stevia Quart sized mason jarCheese cloth or mesh bags for strainingLarge 4 cup measuring cupBlender Layer the cheese cloth or mesh bags into the 4 cup measuring cup. Set aside Put almonds, water and spices of choice in blender and blend for at least a minute (60 seconds). Pour the mixture into prepared measuring cup. Gently but firmly squeeze the mixture through the mesh into the measuring up until all the liquid is squeezed out. Takes some effort and determination. Pour the strained liquid into the mason jar and cover with lid. Store in the fridge for up to 8 days. Be sure to shake the jar each time you use the almond milk.

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#ThursThreads – Week 599 – Winners

Tying Tales Together, #ThursThreads Year 11 Got a tale to tie on?

Week 599 of #ThursThreads, and y’all never disappoint. Week 599… That means next week is 600! OMG six hundred weeks! Thank you to everyone who writes each week and keeps coming back. You made this happen. If you’ve just found us, welcome to the crew! You’re in good company. May you come back again and write more great flash. A thousand thanks to Kelex for judging this week. Check out the #ThursThreads #flashfiction group on Facebook or the #ThursThreads Group on MeWe to keep up with news, etc. Entries: Bill Engleson Siobhan Muir Mark A. Morris Alex Minns Mark Ethridge David A. Ludwig M.T. Decker Honorable Mention Bill Engleson | Website Kelex says: The visuals early in the story were well done. winner announcement Week 599 Winner Alex Minns Kelex says: I really enjoy stories that allow me to visualize a scene clearly, and Alex’s short did the best at that. “What did you do?” “I cleaned. Everything. You really do need to pay more attention to your oven, the build up in there was disgusting.” Theodore stood in the middle of the front room surveying his work. It looked pretty good, considering it was still full of all the mortal junk. Having said that, the television set was growing on him. “You’ve moved all my stuff.” “Tidied. Books should not live on the floor, nor clothes.” “You better not have cleaned my bedroom.” Theodore opened his mouth and then shut it again. Instead covering his frustrated expression by taking the apron off over his head. “You need to stop.” Soraya lumped down on the sofa with the grace of an elephant. “And how come you’re full size, I thought holding mortal sized form was tiresome.” “It is, but cleaning your house at my true size would have taken several lifetimes.” “No-one asked you to clean.” Theodore balled up the apron and then unrolled it to fold it properly. He ignored Soraya’s smirk. “You saved my family’s and my life. I owe you.” He bowed his head, his teeth grinding at the magical tether between them. Since her rescue, he could feel the pull of obligation and it would not rest until he had paid. Although apparently a clean house was not the source of her desire. He had a horrible feeling he knew what was. He was going to have to help her break in to the museum.~~~~~~~ Congratulations Two Time Winner Alex, and Honorable Mention Bill! Don’t forget to claim your badges and display them with pride. You certainly earned it! Pass on the great news on Facebook, MeWe, Bluesky, Mastodon, shiny mirrors, Morse Code, and signal flags. Check out all the original tales HERE. Thanks for stopping by and happy reading! 🙂

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#ThursThreads – Tying Tales Together – Week 599

Tying Tales Together, #ThursThreads Year 11 Got a tale to tie on?

Welcome back to the home of #ThursThreads. Wow. Week 599. I’m astounded. Today is Thursday and that means it’s time to start flashing, like we have for the past 11 years. I had no idea when I started it would keep going! This is Week 599 of #ThursThreads, the challenge that ties tales together. Want to keep up each week? Check out the #ThursThreads #flashfiction group on Facebook and the Group on MeWe. Need the rules? Read on. Here’s how it works: The prompt is a line from the previous week’s winning tale. The prompt can appear ANYWHERE in your story and is included in your word count. The prompt must be used as is. It can be split, but no intervening words can be inserted or tenses changed. Rules to the Game: This is a Flash Fiction challenge, which means your story must be a minimum of 100 words, maximum of 250. The story must be new writing, not a snippet from something published elsewhere with the prompt added. Incorporate the prompt anywhere into your story (included in your word count). Post your story in the comments section of this post Include your word count in the post (or be excluded from judging) Include your social media handle or email in the post (so we easily notify you) The challenge is open 7 AM to 8 PM Mountain Time The winner will be announced on Friday, depending on how early the judge gets up. How it benefits you: You get a nifty cool badge to display on your blog or site (because we’re all about promotion – you know you are!) You get instant recognition of your writing prowess on this blog! Your writing colleagues shall announce and proclaim your greatness on Facebook, Bluesky, MeWe, and Mastodon, etc. Our Judge for Week 599: Uncaffeinated word witch writing daddies, bears, and paranormal beefcake, Kelex. Facebook | Instagram | BookBub |  And now your #ThursThreads Challenge, tying tales together. The Prompt: “It would not rest until he had paid.” All stories written herein are the property (both intellectual and physical) of the authors. Comments do not represent the views of the host and the host reserves the right to remove any content. Now, away with you, Flash Fiction Fanatics, and show us your #ThursThreads. Good luck!

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Monday Motivation: Love into Evolution

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Good morning and Happy Monday! Have you ever heard someone say some derogatory about themselves? Like they hate parts of their body, or they’re disappointed in something their mind does – ADHD, Anxiety, PTSD, etc. Have you every done this yourself? Has it ever brought change or improvement? I bet the answer is no to the last question. There was this cool experiment done on water by Japanese scientists. They analyzed the effects of positive energy (in this case words and compliments) and negative energy (insults) directed at the water, and what the crystalline structure looked like afterwards. The differences were striking. The insulted water had deformed and broken shapes, malformed and incomplete. (The Hidden Messages in Water by Masaru Emoto) One thing to remember is the human body is a living thing running on energy, and it’s 70% water. If negative thoughts and insults deform water, imagine what those same thoughts and insults do to our own bodies. So here’s your Motivation for this Monday: You are a spectacular conglomeration of energy, atoms, and water. You are the most unique version, with a fantastic array of variations never seen before or will come about again. Society would like you to believe you’re not one thing or another – and we’ve all heard those recriminations. But you are magnificent as you are, even with the extras (or lack thereof) of whatever is considered good in societal norms. You are great, amazing, perfection. Love the person you are with all your “imperfections” that others can’t understand. Compliment yourself daily – it doesn’t have to be aloud – and see what beautiful shapes are formed as a result. You got this.  Happy Monday!

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Recipe for Romance: Chicken Pot Pie

Recipe for Romance Two champagne glasses against a purple sparkly background with bells and ribbons at their base

Welcome to Recipe for Romance! Each weekend, I share a snippet of a tale that either takes place in the current month (in this case, February) or is coming out in the current month, and a recipe that either goes with the tale or goes with the month. Confused yet? Excellent! lol Let’s get started. I’m sharing a snippet of IN PLAIN SIGHT, my second book in the multi-author Summit Springs Sapphic Romance series. Triss Singleton has just arrived in Summit Springs, on the run from an abusive husband. She’s trying to start over and Emily Lewiston is helping her. She could really use some comfort food. Available Now: In Plain Sight Today is the first day of your new life. It didn’t feel real. No more real than it had when she was shackled to a man who turned out to be a monster. A monster with friends in places of authority. Her family hadn’t believed her or cared. All they cared about was the fetus growing in her belly and their relief that she was in a relationship with man so they didn’t have to acknowledge her bisexuality. She took a deep breath and let all the anger and resentment go. It wouldn’t help her, and they’d never change. That was why she’d cut them out of her life when she fled California. It’s a new start, and I’m gonna be fine. Emily returned a few moments later with her hands full of full-sized shampoo, conditioner, and bodywash, a puff, toothpaste, toothbrush, and body cream. She set them all on the counter of the kitchenette and shot Triss a smile. “I hope these will be okay. They should get you through the storm and the downtime between what you have now and your first paycheck. Payroll goes through to your account on Tuesdays.” Emily tilted her head. “Can you start tomorrow morning? I know it’s soon, but I’d like to get you up to speed pretty quickly so you can start filling your bank account for anything you need.” Triss raised her eyebrows. “Are you sure? I mean, I can do it, but it seems sudden.” Emily nodded. “One thing I’ve learned about these sorts of situations. You probably want something to distract you from the fear hounding you, and you’ll have less fear if you feel financially secure on your own. It’s my goal to support both independence and peace of mind. Been there, done that myself.” “Oh. Okay.” Triss wasn’t sure if the polite thing to do was to ask about the past or to let the comment go, but she was too emotionally worn out to do more than nod. Gluten-Free Chicken Pot Pie https://youtu.be/CgOix3VlKMA This is an easy and cheap meal that is great for wintertime, but also during the busy school season. The hardest thing you have to make is the crust. INGREDIENTS1 can gluten-free cream of chicken soup (warning: we realized this has a LOT of salt, 2000 mg!!)1 can sliced carrots1 can whole potatoes1 can sweat peas1 medium onion, chopped2 large cans (12.5 oz each) chunk chicken2 Tbsp olive oil2 premade crusts DIRECTIONSMake your crust (if making from scratch) or set one premade crust in your pie plate. Set aside. Coarsely chop up onion and saute in a deep pan with the olive oil. Saute for about five minutes over medium heat until onions are translucent. Drain the other canned vegetables and rinse them in a colander to remove excess salt. Cut up potatoes into bite sized chunks. Set aside. Set your oven to 425 F (218 C). Drain chicken, break up into smaller chunks and add to the pan to start browning. Add the other vegetables to the pan and stir to heat up. Add the potatoes. Add the soup last and stir to combine, keeping an eye on it to heat everything evenly. Add a teaspoon of Mrs. Dash or a spice mix of your choosing, and mix well. Pour cooked ingredients into the pie crust and cover with the second crust. Cut air vents into the top crust. Bake for 20-25 minutes. Take out of the oven, let cool for about five minutes, and serve. 10″ pie plate serves 8 people.

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#ThursThreads – Week 598 – Winners

Tying Tales Together, #ThursThreads Year 11 Got a tale to tie on?

Week 598 of #ThursThreads, and y’all never disappoint. Thank you to everyone who writes each week. If you’ve rediscovered us, welcome back! You’re in good company. May you come back again. A thousand thanks to Muirlette #1 for judging this week. Check out the #ThursThreads #flashfiction group on Facebook or the #ThursThreads Group on MeWe to keep up with news, etc. Entries: Bill Engleson  Mark A. Morris Sheilagh Lee  Siobhan Muir  Nellie Batz Alex Minns David A. Ludwig  Louisa Bacio  M.T. Decker  Katheryn J. Avila Honorable Mentions Louisa Bacio | Website Tina says: I really liked the quiet, peaceful energy and setting. The mellow way the characters interacted and the cinnamon-roll like attitude of the male character. Lovely work. Alex Mins | Website Muirlette says: I liked the suspense of a missing fallen angel moving around Earth even though there’s a crowd of people around. Plus the twist at the end of one of the investigators being a fallen angel themselves. Great job. winner announcement Week 598 Winner M.T. Decker Muirlette says: I liked how the description was a contrast. Her memories of what the pictures were supposed to be compared to what the crime scene pictures actually showed. And of course, the suspense at the end was great. Well done. The Grand Tour Images and afterthoughts, that’s all that she could see—a moment frozen in time, captured on film. She could feel the emotions on people’s faces as they posed for the pictures. It was strange marrying up the pictures from the album and the crime scene photos– before and after. Before, everything seemed so bright and cheerful, but the forensic photos painted a darker picture. They were witness to the truth behind the lies in the carefully posed images. Meticulously maintained lawns, and carefully coifed women drinking from delicate teacups, bespoke a genteal world. while whisps of smoke and ash, and the scent of stale coffee filled the room. The photos played out like cards, telling two different stories. A picture of the formal gardens, sunlit mazes of roses, and flame bushes hinted at summer bliss. They lay in stark contrast to the photos of carefully collected evidence, meticulously numbered and notated. The swing, she would climb pretending she was a sailor on the yardarm of a tall ship, fell from the desk, revealing the dark stains of rust and old blood. The photos of be beach. This is where she fell in love. It was also where her heart broke. He’d taken another to their spot along the bay. She mourned the death of love and tried to stop the bitter flow of tears. This is where her darker half was born. And it would not rest until he had paid. Images and afterthoughts. That’s all they really were.~~~~~~~ Congratulations THIRTY-TWO TIME WINNER M.T. and Honorable Mentions Louisa and Alex. Don’t forget to claim your badges and display them with pride. You certainly earned it! Pass on the great news on Facebook, MeWe, Bluesky, Mastodon, shiny mirrors, Morse Code, and signal flags. Check out all the original tales HERE. Thanks for stopping by and happy reading! 🙂

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#ThursThreads – Tying Tales Together – Week 598

Tying Tales Together, #ThursThreads Year 11 Got a tale to tie on?

Welcome back to the home of #ThursThreads. Wow. Week 598. Holy smokes! We’ve made it almost 600 WEEKS! Mind-boggling. Today is Thursday and that means it’s time to start flashing, like we have for the past 11 years. I had no idea when I started it would keep going! This is Week 598 of #ThursThreads, the challenge that ties tales together. Want to keep up each week? Check out the #ThursThreads #flashfiction group on Facebook and the Group on MeWe. Need the rules? Read on. Here’s how it works: The prompt is a line from the previous week’s winning tale. The prompt can appear ANYWHERE in your story and is included in your word count. The prompt must be used as is. It can be split, but no intervening words can be inserted or tenses changed. Rules to the Game: This is a Flash Fiction challenge, which means your story must be a minimum of 100 words, maximum of 250. The story must be new writing, not a snippet from something published elsewhere with the prompt added. Incorporate the prompt anywhere into your story (included in your word count). Post your story in the comments section of this post Include your word count in the post (or be excluded from judging) Include your social media handle or email in the post (so we easily notify you) The challenge is open 7 AM to 8 PM Mountain Time The winner will be announced on Friday, depending on how early the judge gets up. How it benefits you: You get a nifty cool badge to display on your blog or site (because we’re all about promotion – you know you are!) You get instant recognition of your writing prowess on this blog! Your writing colleagues shall announce and proclaim your greatness on Facebook, Bluesky, MeWe, and Mastodon, etc. Our Judge for Week 598: Cat wrangler, master violinist, and Tea connoisseur, Muirlette #1. And now your #ThursThreads Challenge, tying tales together. The Prompt: “This is where she fell.” All stories written herein are the property (both intellectual and physical) of the authors. Comments do not represent the views of the host and the host reserves the right to remove any content. Now, away with you, Flash Fiction Fanatics, and show us your #ThursThreads. Good luck!

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Monday Motivation: I Rested Today

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Good morning and Happy Monday! And Happy President’s Day if you celebrate. This is a day that many people take off (if they don’t work in retail or the food services). It is one of the few, rare holidays when Americans don’t have to work – Americans, by and large, are workaholics – mostly to survive, so the phrase about being lazy is very common. But in Late Stage Capitalism, we are in dire need of recalibration of our thoughts. It’s very easy to claim or accuse yourself of being lazy, but that’s just the old programming we need to discard. So here’s your Motivation for this Monday: We are human BEINGS not human DOINGS, and the “lazy” remark is only for doings. Being human means taking time to rest, recuperate, and relax. You are more than your job, and you deserve time to be yourself in whatever way you need to be. Take your time, find your space, and rediscover your value in just being you. Which phrase strikes you the most? Happy Monday!

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Recipe for Romance: Gluten Free Scalloped Corn

Recipe for Romance Two champagne glasses against a purple sparkly background with bells and ribbons at their base

Welcome to Recipe for Romance! Let’s get started. I’m sharing a snippet of IN PLAIN SIGHT, the second book I’ve written in a multi-author Summit Springs Sapphic Romance series. In this snippet, Sheriff Briona Maverick is finding out some bad news, and when I get bad news, I just want comfort foods. Scalloped Corn is one of my family’s favorites. Available Now: In Plain Sight “Well, we got ourselves a body up here that’s connected to you. When was the last time you were up in Idaho?” Briona straightened. “Never, Sheriff. I’ve never visited the state. I don’t even know where Cuthbert is. What’s this about?” “Do you know a Kelsey Jackson?” Briona’s whole world stopped, and her body grew chilled despite the heat in her house. Oh glory. What happened to you, Kelsey? She took a deep breath. “Yes, I knew a Kelsey Jackson. What’s this about?” “Ms. Jackson was found dead at the Pilot Truck Stop out on Highway 11. Looks like an accidental overdose, but the ME will have to confirm after the autopsy.” He cleared his throat. “I’m very sorry for your loss.” “Uh, yeah, thanks.” Briona shook her head, trying to get her thoughts in order. She always felt sorry for the surviving friends and family of victims, but she’d never been on the other side of the table. “What was your connection to Ms. Jackson?” She heard the cop’s voice on the other end of the phone, and she dragged her focus back from the grief threatening to suck her down. “We were old friends and roommates for a while, Sheriff. Why?” “Well, she had very little on her other than her clothes, her purse, a backpack, and stone circle necklace on a leather thong. But in her wallet was a note that said you should be contacted if anything happened to her.” Briona blinked. “She had a note, in her wallet, with my name on it?” “Yup. It says, and I quote, ‘If anything happens to me, call Sheriff Briona Maverick, and tell her I’m sorry. Everything I have goes to her.’ That mean anything to you, Sheriff?” “No. I haven’t seen Kelsey in the six years since she left.” Briona hoped her voice didn’t sound anything but confused. Gluten-Free Scalloped Corn https://youtu.be/sK8kzbkO2Dg This recipe is an old family favorite. My maternal grandmother used to make this every year for Gratitude Day and it was my favorite thing on the table next to the mashed potatoes. But when I made it later and followed the recipe exactly, it didn’t taste good to me. So I’ve modified it from the original a little, making it Gluten-Free and much better in taste. Ingredients 2 Tbsp coconut oil1 1/2 Tbsp gluten-free 1:1 baking flour1 cup milk2 cups cooked or canned corn1 Tbsp sugar1/2 tsp salt2 eggs, beaten1/8 tsp pepperPinch of mace and parsley Directions In a large sauce pan, melt shortening over medium heat and add the flour. Mix well. Add the milk, increase the heat to medium-high, and gradually bring the mixture to a boil, stirring constantly so it doesn’t burn. Add the corn, sugar, salt, pepper, mace, and parsley, and mix until thoroughly distributed. Heat completely, then remove from the burner. Add beaten eggs and mix well until evenly combined. Pour mixture into a greased 9×9 baking dish and bake at 350 F (177 C) for 25 minutes. Let cool for 10 minutes before serving. Makes 6-8 servings. To double the recipe, use a greased 9×13 inch pan.

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